fix(unread): restore the tab unread badge and fix the post-F2 unread decision

The v1.8.x sidebar/top-bar rebuild never re-rendered the unread dot, so inactive tabs showed no badge even though the counter was tracked. Draw it again top-right of the tab icon in both Sidebar and TopTabBar, gated on !active && UnreadMode != None && Unread > 0, and zero the active tab's counter every frame (1.5.6 convention) so the dot only ever shows on tabs you are not looking at.

The unread decision moves to MessageManager.ShouldCountUnread and snapshots the active tab + whether it shows the message once before the loop: Unseen suppresses unread on an inactive tab only when the active (real, post-F2) tab also shows that message. Adds SidebarUnreadDotStep (render) and UnreadDecisionStep (decision) self-tests (step count 32 -> 34).

HellionChat/Plugin.cs

@@ -402,6 +402,8 @@ public sealed class Plugin : IAsyncDalamudPlugin
                 new SelfTests.ScrollSnapDecisionStep(this),
                 new SelfTests.TellResetOnActivateStep(),
                 new SelfTests.CurrentTabCouplingStep(this),
+                new SelfTests.SidebarUnreadDotStep(this),
+                new SelfTests.UnreadDecisionStep(),
                 new SelfTests.CurrentTabGuidedStep(this),
             ]);